Fake it till you make it? This can work if you are also doing the healing work to back it up, so eventually you ease into this new version of you, naturally.
Sometimes when a person gets a huge crush on another, it can be that they see everything they need in that person, quick ticket to happiness… not. They are often uncomfortable around this person and it could very well be because of the difference in frequency. I suppose it’s like being around a celebrity, similar situation. It’s almost like they don’t deserve that person but are hoping that they can somehow trick that person into loving them. Sounds like a soap opera, I hope this is going somewhere…
It’s about being authentic and doing the work. When you admire a person’s life, their possessions and success, what you are really admiring is their ability to create, govern and control energy. Their own, and the energy in their world. When this has been mastered you see amazing results i.e. prosperity, abundance and success. By governing their energy, I mean keeping it positive, not falling into self-sabotage, knowing how to prevent their energy from being drained by their actions or the actions of others is the doorwayto all your hearts desires. If they are willing to do the work needed, both on themselves, and in their life the bounty is profound.
One of the major problems in this world is (a) people thinking they must get what they need from an external source. And (b) that if they were not blessed with a childhood that helped connect them with their creativity, abilities and resourcefulness, that they need to take what they need from others as this was not naturally coming to them in the past. Whether that be from a person, a business or a country. This feeling of scarcity is an illusion, the universe is abundant to those who know.
I believe that the ideal relationship is a coming together of people that are of similar frequencies, that are already successful and enjoying their lives. That each bring skills, gifts and abilities that are of mutual benefit. That both are comfortable with each other’s success and freedom, knowing that each of you have read Susan’s blogs and are following an ethical life of growth and adventure. That was a great plug. Ha, ha.
A relationship is not an answer to your loneliness or emptiness. When you look for the love you need in another human, you are courting heart break. Now I am not saying you should not enjoy another’s love, but do not rely on it as your sole source of happiness. Your connection with God or your higher self provides a limitless supply of love, that no human could even come close to matching. You will never be forsaken, it is always there for you, and the more you heal the more you feel and connect with this. Then instead of you looking for love “in all the wrong places” you become a source of love that the world needs. Then as people come and go, as they do, its no real drama as your source is from within and the external love you experience is icing on the cake. You get to keep the cake, yeah.
Susan Vaughan
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